Date #77: Saturday Night Guy
Description
The Three Points To a Successful Relationship
3 Things to Look for in a Family Man
Marriage IS Hard Work...So What!
Why We Decided We Don't Want a Normal Relationship
Being "Hangry" Can Lead to Relationship Problems
Why Reminiscing on Your Dating Days Is Important
How Procrastination Can Kill Your Relationship
Are You Acting or Taking Action in Dating
Their Love Had Gone Cold
They Had to Confront Her Affair
They Had to Give Back Their Baby Boy
They Regretted Their Divorce
When Home Becomes the Office: A Marriage on the Brink
Fighting for Our Marriage After the War
We Almost Lost Our Daughter — Then Our Marriage
Marriage on the Move: Loving Through Loss and Relocation
Even if I didn't have This Guy from last night on my mind, I wouldn't have been into tonight's date, Saturday Night Guy. Nice enough guy, just not my type.
Which made me think: if I'd met This Guy via an online dating site, would we have clicked? With internet dating, there's so much pressure -- if you don't click in that first hour, forget it. I can barely remember how the casual chatting developed into attraction with TG (OK, blame the margaritas for that). I wasn't "boyfriend shopping", I was just enjoying being there. He just happened to be especially interesting... and cute.
Little side note about tonight's date with Saturday Guy -- days ago, we had decided that tonight we'd meet at a new wine bar that neither of us had been to. About an hour before the date, I checked a map, and saw that the bar was RIGHT around the corner from This Guy's apartment. Not a good way to start off, with TG possibly seeing me on a date with another guy, a mere 16 hours after leaving his apartment.
I needed a good excuse for changing the venue, so I called Saturday Guy and mentioned that since it was such a nice evening out, why didn't we go somewhere with outdoor seating? He agreed, and I suggested a bar that was a bit further away. After an hour or so, I mentioned how tired I was (true), and headed home.
This Guy and I made plans to get together tomorrow afternoon -- I hope that still happens, and that he doesn't succumb to the epidemic of the Date Cancellers.
3 Things to Look for in a Family Man
Marriage IS Hard Work...So What!
Why We Decided We Don't Want a Normal Relationship
Being "Hangry" Can Lead to Relationship Problems
Why Reminiscing on Your Dating Days Is Important
How Procrastination Can Kill Your Relationship
Are You Acting or Taking Action in Dating
Their Love Had Gone Cold
They Had to Confront Her Affair
They Had to Give Back Their Baby Boy
They Regretted Their Divorce
When Home Becomes the Office: A Marriage on the Brink
Fighting for Our Marriage After the War
We Almost Lost Our Daughter — Then Our Marriage
Marriage on the Move: Loving Through Loss and Relocation
Even if I didn't have This Guy from last night on my mind, I wouldn't have been into tonight's date, Saturday Night Guy. Nice enough guy, just not my type.
Which made me think: if I'd met This Guy via an online dating site, would we have clicked? With internet dating, there's so much pressure -- if you don't click in that first hour, forget it. I can barely remember how the casual chatting developed into attraction with TG (OK, blame the margaritas for that). I wasn't "boyfriend shopping", I was just enjoying being there. He just happened to be especially interesting... and cute.
Little side note about tonight's date with Saturday Guy -- days ago, we had decided that tonight we'd meet at a new wine bar that neither of us had been to. About an hour before the date, I checked a map, and saw that the bar was RIGHT around the corner from This Guy's apartment. Not a good way to start off, with TG possibly seeing me on a date with another guy, a mere 16 hours after leaving his apartment.
I needed a good excuse for changing the venue, so I called Saturday Guy and mentioned that since it was such a nice evening out, why didn't we go somewhere with outdoor seating? He agreed, and I suggested a bar that was a bit further away. After an hour or so, I mentioned how tired I was (true), and headed home.
This Guy and I made plans to get together tomorrow afternoon -- I hope that still happens, and that he doesn't succumb to the epidemic of the Date Cancellers.
Début de l'événement
09.04.2023
Fin de l'événement
09.04.2023
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